Life can be
difficult, demanding, and challenging.
Life will test our
patience and stretch us to the limits. I have some good news for any of you who
might feel this way, or have felt that way in the past and want the remedy for
24/7 happiness!
The answer is simple,
and it’s all about balance.
There are three basic steps: start your day right, get in tune with you, and keep a schedule.
Start Your Day Right
Now my sisters can
tell you that I have always struggled with balancing school, work, boys,
family, exercise, sleep… just everything. This past week I took this wellness
thing very seriously, and I cannot believe how amazing I have felt! So I want
to share with you the things I’ve done in the past that always keep my happy,
along with what I discovered this week!
Wake up early and
read!
Getting up with the
sun instead of sleeping in until 10 has given me so much energy and more hours
in my day to get everything done. I feel that reading is so good for a person
intellectually and emotionally. It is relaxing, it wakes up that brain, and
paired with a fuzzy blanket and hot chocolate, you just can’t beat it. I love
to read the bible and other scriptures in the mornings. I’ve found when I start my mornings with
prayer and the Lord, that He helps keep me sane throughout the day, and
remember what is most important so I better prioritize my ‘to do’ list. This
morning routine relaxes me and puts me in a good mood without fail!
Get In Tune With You
Now that you’re
feeling awake and ready to conquer your day, fuel yourself physically. I am a
firm believer of breakfast. Not skipping breakfast will help you have the
energy that you need and will help you to stay awake in class, at your desk at
work, and for all those other after school and work activities.
Listening to your
body and your soul is key to finding balance and having that constant peaceful,
happy feeling. Not only should you try to eat well for the sake of having energy, but you
also need to pay attention to the things that you enjoy. Incorporate those
activities into your daily life; they will put a smile on your face.
Get outside.
Get in touch with the
beauty of nature and the great local places around you. Fresh air is good for
your body and soul. Be adventurous and explore some hiking trails or sit on a
bench at the park and soak in some sun. After a long day at school I would sit
on a blanket outside and do my homework. It was heaven!
Do something with a
friend.
There is no better
way to relieve stress than to laugh it off with a friend or sibling. We all
need those social outlets sometimes where we can just sit and talk with someone
and enjoy being around others. I still have found memories of almost everyday
after track practice in high school, my best friends and I would go to
Chick-Fil-A and sit for a couple hours just laughing and talking about anything
and everything.
Do something you
enjoy alone.
You need time to think
and you need time to recharge those batteries. That won’t happen if you’re in a
room full of people. I’ll give myself an hour everyday to read, write a song,
get on Pinterest, exercise, bake something crazy, meditate, and just about anything to
have some quality Mandi time!
It. Feels. So. Great.
Do something for
someone else.
Once you’re feeling
balanced from taking some time for you, use that energy you get from it to help
someone else. Drop off a couple of those cookies you just made, or call someone
who might need a friend, or even volunteer somewhere. The greatest happiness
you will find in your day will come from the times when you are doing things
for others!
Keep A Schedule
Once you figure out
what works for you and what you enjoy, write it down and repeat! You will keep
that daily happiness going, and you will feel ready to face the world and the
challenges you are going through. Life is so great, and we can get so much more
out of it if we try to stay balanced and do those little things that make us
smile everyday.
We love all of you so
much!
Have fun living everyday to its fullest and enjoying the journey!
<3 Mandi








Thanks so much for this, Mandi! You have given me just the motivation I have needed to be able to live closer to God & become a happier person! :)
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